Marriage

Mike Pence, the Billy Graham Rule, and my Pastor-Husband

A few weeks back, a story broke about Mike Pence’s decision not to eat alone with women other than his wife (sometimes referred to as the Billy Graham Rule). There’s been praise for his commitment to his marriage, accusations of sexism, and many discussions about gender and the workplace. As a pastor‘s wife, sometimes I’m asked my opinion on the Billy Graham Rule. People want to know if I’m okay...
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As a Grownup

What I’m Reading (April 2017)

The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead This book traces the life of Cora, a young woman who is born into slavery and later escapes north, but cannot escape her past. Whitehead just won the 2017 Pulitzer Prize, with the committee calling his book, “…a smart melding of realism and allegory that combines the violence of slavery and the drama of escape in a myth that speaks to contemporary America.” I highly recommend...
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Learn

The Difference Between Personalities and Problems

I love me a good personality theory. Recently I’ve become more acquainted with the Enneagram. It’s truly fascinating and has replaced Myers Briggs as my favorite. As I’ve thought about personality theory lately, I’ve been thinking about how many times we equate personality with a problem. The blogging world and real life is full of opinions on pretty much everything. And so many times the arguments have more to...
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Personal Growth

What I’m Reading (March 2017)

It’s been a while since my last reading post. Here’s what I’ve been reading along the way. Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J.D. Vance This memoir about a man in his early 30’s and his family before him has been touted as a post-election must-read. I would agree. Vance traces his family’s tenuous travels from poor to middle-class, from Appalachia to the rust...
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Learn

A Homeschool Day in the Life (Year 2)

We’re well into our second year of homeschooling and I’m joining up with Simple Homeschool to share what a typical day looks like with our 7-year old (1st grade) and our 3-year old. Last year the kids were up every day at 6:15. This year we get a whole extra 45 minutes before the light turns green. Woohoo! (This Ok to Wake Clock has made mornings so much smoother!)...
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Faith

I Pray for You on Sundays

I wouldn’t call myself a woman of prayer. If I say I’ll pray for you, I do. Often right then and there so I don’t forget. And sometimes again later. But praying without ceasing is so far beyond my sights it still doesn’t quite register. But I pray for you on Sundays. Never during prayer time in the service. I’m too distracted by the mass of people and what...
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Personal Growth

February Wrap Up

In Real Life January and February were a bit fuller than usual. A nephew was born, we had visitors for a weekend, Dan spent five days in Belize for work, and another nephew spent a few days hanging out with us so his parents could have a break. Our daughter thoroughly enjoyed her favorite night of the year – the Daddy Daughter Dance. We also painted the living room,...
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