When the day starts with a crying toddler at 1 am my desire for a do-over starts before it’s even light out.  And 16 meltdowns later I was still wishing for a do-over.  But today we did our meltdowns differently.  We ignored laundry day.  We both took a nap.  And as the temperature creeped up from 39 degrees to 73 we decided to be thankful – for warm weather and a screened in back porch where no one could really tell we still had on sweatpants and oversized shirts.